The gift of childhood

Childhood is so short and precious yet it seems like there is such a big push in our society to grow up and become independent - the earlier, the better. There is an underlying fear that a dependent child will become a dependent adult.  A fear that a child which has not been properly enriched with the myriad of classes available will somehow never become a competent, competitive adult in our high tech world.

I think we would be better served if we could respect the gift of childhood.  Respect a child's need to be in nature, have a dependable nourishing home life, and be surrounded by adults who create an environment conducive to mastering the astounding amount of skills needed to function in our society. By respecting a child's needs, we will teach them to be respectful of others and to become responsible adults.  Time and freedom to play, create, dream and imagine with limitedoutside influences (especially media) will give a child a sense of well-being and balance.  A child will carry this sense of self with them throughout their lives.

In our house, we consciously choose to give our children plenty of time.  Some days it is a struggle.  There are so many wonderful opportunities available.  Yet by stepping back and leaving unscheduled time in our week, our children play alone or with each other, read, draw, explore outdoors and many other self guided pursuits.  They easily entertain themselves.  Hopefully as adults, this will allow them to be self-directed in their careers and their personal lives.  I am hoping that by respecting their childhood, we will give them the ability to respect themselves as adults, the ability to pursue paths which will fulfill them and the tools to know that they are responsible for making things happen.

Have a great day.